Sophia Sahara

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“Hi, my name is Mistress Sophie Sahara and I am here today filming with Oubliette films.”

Q: How did you get into femdom?

“Well, I have been going to fetish parties for a really long time, ever since I was sort of 19, 20 years old I was going off to Berlin, going to all sorts of different parties and it really just started from there. I mean, I think one of my first experiences was going to a well know fetish club over and there and a guy just asking if I wanted to piss in his mouth, in the toilets, so I just thought “well I don’t really have a problem with that, why not? it could be fun”. And since then I’ve been doing deviant things for a long time. I’m quite open minded, I don’t really have many inhibitions in “that” way, and I enjoy everything I do, so…”

Q: What does femdom mean to you?

“Femdom means to me having complete control over my own life. I live my life, every day, exactly how I want to. I enjoy every single thing that I do, and I don’t let anyone tell me what I should or shouldn’t be doing. Yeah, it’s about having total power, total agency, and I’ve never felt freer in my life, I’ve never had more confidence, I really don’t take shit from anyone now.”

Q: What are your favourite kinks?

“My favourite kinks, well, I mean where do I start? I’m quite deviant. I really, really thoroughly enjoy humiliation. It’s not because I hate men or I really want to humiliate men because I have some sort of hatred, it’s really not that at all, I just really, really enjoy humiliation and degradation. Even such a simple act like spitting in someone’s face or pissing all over someone’s…face, I really enjoy that. It might be a territorial thing, I’m not quite sure, but yeah.”

Q: What do you like to do in your spare time?

“My spare time?! My spare time is this, this is my life. You know, it’s interesting when people ask me this, of course I have a normal life, I see friends, a partner. I’m really into art, that’s actually a previous sort of life, it’s my background, what I studied and things like that, so art is a big part of my life, so is music. But really, there is no separation for me, this is my life, it encompasses everything. so there is no separation from work, to my hobbies, to this and that, you know this is my hobby; latex is a hobby, leather is a hobby, the fetish scene in general is a hobby, so it’s all…there is no spare time, it’s just my life.”

Q: Do you have a favourite unforgettable femdom moment?

“Oh my god! yeah, there’s actually, there’s going to be quite a few. I was almost about to say what’s the more PC kind of answer here? I don’t know exactly how far you want to hear or how kind of “filthy” you want to hear? But, I’ll tell you anyway, I’ll tell you the story I like to tell some clients sometimes, when they think “oh, she probably doesn’t do stuff like that”. But honestly, I’ve done all sorts of things, like nothing really phases me. So if you want to hear the, sort of, most extreme femdom story it, well, this is it:

I was at a party, again in Germany, and I met this very good looking sort of sub, he was younger than me (I’ll tell you he was younger than me). He came up to me and we started chatting and he asked me about my fetishes and things like that, and…he was definitely leading into this, he was trying to see if I was up for this. And he said he was into scat, and I just sort of burst out laughing because I thought “oh my god” like he’s a good looking guy, 6’1, 20-21, whatever, nice body, you know? I mean, anyone can be into anything, right? But when he said that I just really start burst out laughing in his face and he said to me “oh, sometimes hard to find girls to do this sort of thing”. And I just looked at him, and I though “ I can’t believe you are into this”, so I said to him “well, you know, I’ve never done it before, but it doesn’t really bother me. If I see you again, maybe this week, but I’m not going to go out of my way to, you know? Serve you? It really should be the other way around.” But he kept pestering me, the week that I was in Germany, he kept texting me this and that and eventually I way him again at that same party, but a different night, and I said to him “If you really want to do it, then come back to my hotel room and let’s see if I can do it?” I wasn’t ashamed of it, I wasn’t thinking that I would back out, or whatever, I just thought “okay, you’ve asked me a few times in, so let’s see what happens.”

So we had a great time at this fetish party, all night, and it maybe, like, 7-8 in the morning, then I said to him “okay, you can come back to my hotel room”, we stayed up chatting etc, and we fell asleep (and whatever) and the next day, hungover, I woke him up and said “I think I can do it now” and he literally just lay on the hotel room floor, with his mouth open, and I just squatted over his face, and I just did it. And even he was just, sort of in shock, and it wasn’t even the first time he’d done it, you know? It wasn’t. But I think, you know, because a lot of the time it’s just something most people just won’t do, he was just surprised I did it. But, it’s like I said, I don’t really have any inhibitions, I just sort of thought I’ve not done this before, let’s just try it, and I was just… like…I just couldn’t stop laughing, if I’m honest with you. I really had no problem with it whatsoever. I couldn’t stop laughing, we did it, he ate it, he ate it all, and then he took a little while to get, I don’t know, sor of mentally calm down. And then he said “oh, I’ve kind of got a long day ahead of me” and I said “why? What are you up to, it’s a Sunday” and then he said he was going to a private sex party, and I thought “Fucking hell, you can’t tell me you’re going to a private sex party and not invite me.” So even after all that, I then went to another dungeon in Berlin, privately owned, and ended up at a private play party and used him as a sub and there were some other people there, and it was just a whole, whole crazy weekend of debauchery like that. I’ve definitely got a few stories like that, but that one really sticks out in my mind, because I just had this beautiful German boy on my hotel room floor and, you know, used him like that, so there you go.”

Q: Do you have a femdom fantasy you’re yet to experience?

“Well, if I could just have team of boys, just a group of boys I could just make them do whatever the fuck  I wanted to each other, not to me, but to each other for my amusement. Sissification, forced bi, all of that sort of thing. I mean I do a lot of that myself anyway, but just to, you know, just make men do things to each other that they normally wouldn’t do, all just to please me, that’s kind of a big fantasy for me, yeah. So a lot more forced bi for me, I think.”

Q: What do you like to wear most during play-time?

“What do I like to wear? Well, my god, I have…people ask me what my biggest fetish is, and aside from sort of the play that I do, like actually latex is quite a big fetish for me (I say that whilst wearing a leather corset). There have been so many times I’ll be getting ready for a session and I’ve thought “oh I’m not bothered about this”, I’m tired, or whatever. But then the moment I start to put some latex on, so a go-to outfit for me is actually a pair of latex hotpants, normally a corset, then some sort of latex bra top, or a latex top, maybe some opera gloves, something like that, and then some thigh high boots, always. I do love the, you know, platform thigh high boot, something like that, it just makes me feel powerful, and the whole look makes me feel like Wonder Woman, especially with those kind of pants rather than latex trousers or something like that. I do love full coverage latex as well, but I think for me, personally, I feel maybe sexier wearing more sort of pants with a top, that sort of thing. And well, I do a lot of strap on so even though I like latex dresses, I hardly ever get to wear them when I play.”

Q: “How would you describe your domination style in three words?”

“Humiliating, degrading…this isn’t the third word, but making you my fucking bitch, that’s what I like.”