Mistress Alexia

Website: www.mistress-alexia.co.uk

Twitter: @MistressAl

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 Q: How did you get into femdom?

“It was about when I arrived in Spain and I started to meet people and I started looking for places and then one day I met a person who taught me about whips that I wanted, and took me to a special website. I started to meet people there and I decided “okay, I’m going to start doing sessions.” Then I started looking around different places and I started to get more information about how the parties and events worked in the UK, because I was always fascinated by the UK. And, this is how I started.“

Q: What does femdom mean to you?

“For me it’s about female supremacy, domination, respect, understanding a sub really well, understanding that person really well. When I have someone in front of me that really wants to play. because knowing everyone is a sub , a slave, some people want to be fetishists as well. It’s all different, everyone is different and works different. Sometimes when I organise sessions the person has in his mind something special, but when I start the session it all changes depending on how the person feels on the day, during the session. So for me it’s really important to have a connection with the person when it’s their first time, it’s a shame when it’s only one session and I never see this person again, but I would like this person to always remember me, and how we enjoyed it together because it’s not about pleasing me or about what I like to do, it’s important for the other person as well… when both do a good job then you end up with good chemistry.“

Q: What are your favourite kinks?

“I like boots. I have a very big fetish for boots. I have different kinds of boots, some with platforms, some are really ‘fetish’. I like normal boots and the kind I wear everyday. I like leather, I love the texture. I also like satin, the transparent and latex. I like to play with whips. I like bullish men, super-sized. But I enjoy all, I enjoy so many things.“

Q: What do you like to do in your spare time?

“I enjoy reading, I enjoy calling my friends to have a meeting to drink coffee. I like to be near the people that have always tried to help me or support me, because I think it’s important to support your friends as well; we need to not just think only about ourselves, we need to think about the people around us. I’m a social person, but sometimes I need my own space as well, I enjoy half and half:  with people and the other half to be alone and do my own things.”

Q: Do you have a favourite unforgettable femdom moment?

“My femdom moment that I’ll never forget? I can say maybe twice. When I arrived in Spain the first time, when I saw a real dungeon, I had a nice conversation with the lady and she explained to me more or less how things worked, because I had an idea, but that’s all it was, an idea, but the reality and in real life how this was working. And it was really nice to see a real dungeon and her own space. And then the second big one was the first time I went to London and I came for a femdom party, and I saw all the boys. very good dressed, some were naked, some boys had a collar. I saw others that were not really into femdom but they showed respect and everything like that. It made me think “Oh my god, I am where I want to stay!” Yep that’s it, those are the two really good memories I have.”

Q: Do you have a femdom fantasy you’re yet to experience?

“I think so, Mistresses always have a femdom fantasy. I have a few, but really I would like to play outdoors, I like pony play, I like a very, very strong setting. But sometimes when I have been in the mood to do it the other person isn’t really in the moment to do it, and then also one day I couldn’t do it… the very harsh whipping… Or, the other is, okay, I would like to have a person for one week, submissive or slave, for one week and we are clear what we are working towards in this week, no mercy and he is entirely in my hands. That’s it, one day, I’ll have this opportunity, because sometime they have this fantasy to most, but when I write it down, to play, to serve Mistress, they think it’s too much.”

Q: What do you like to wear most during play-time?

“It’s all about what kind of session it is. Sometimes I have some sessions where I will sweat too much and sometimes it’s easy to use transparents. Sometimes a session is more about fetishes, about PVC, latex or leather. But what do I enjoy more? I love to use Latex, latex and leather, always these as my first choice, always depending as well on the place, the weather and stuff like that.“

Q: How would you describe your domination style in three words?

“Confidence, respect and looking for the chemistry with the other person so we both will enjoy the moment or session.”